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Xpose
12-10-2002, 06:29 PM
This topic has been covered before on Pixies, and elsewhere.

I really would like to put this to a poll and ask the ladies, to answer honestly how they cum the most frequently. By penetration alone? Or by clitoral stimulation, using your fingers, a friend using their fingers on you, a vibrator, or whatever.

So girls, and guys perhaps you can answer for your S.O.

I have to be honest here and tell you that initially I was disappointed, because Mrs Xpose mostly cums using her own fingers, only once or twice have I made her cum using my fingers or tongue.

But you can see for yourselves what a sex kitten she is.

Sharni
12-10-2002, 06:38 PM
Most frequently ~ My fingers

But can cum by Vibe, someone using their fingers and tongue...usually as long as clitoral stimulation is involved...

Have come by sex alone...but for me it is rare...but still it feels damn good!! :p:p

RandyGal
12-10-2002, 07:11 PM
Vibe. :D


(using one or several. LOL)

jennaflower
12-10-2002, 08:15 PM
definetly.. in my case.. clitoral stimulation... and thus far.. the best method I have found for that is my bullet :) WOOHOOO

Wombats Dinner
12-12-2002, 10:04 AM
Well for me it can be both by pentration or stimulation of the clit but the most intense ones are definently with clitoral stimulation, I can have heaps of small orgasms with penetration but once I have had that MAJOR clit orgasm thats it for atleast 10minutes..lol :) :)

Xpose
12-12-2002, 06:47 PM
This is very interesting, wish we had some more votes!

Vintage Vixen
12-13-2002, 01:09 AM
At times when i'm on top riding my bf i get both...if i lean forward
just right and he holds my ass,i have amazing orgasms that way
going up n down on his cock and grinding my pussy as i'm coming down on him...well i'll tell ya lol i get dizzy afterwards,my legs are shaky but i'm in HEAVEN :)

Lilith
12-13-2002, 01:36 AM
My fave is his fingers on my clit while he strokes in and out.......mmmmmmmmmm

Almost always I have to have clittoral or g-spot stimulation to cum but I hate cumming empty.....I need to feel filled..... to have something to spasm against be it fingers, a vibe, or the best choice, a hot stiff cock.

On a few rare occasions I have gotten off by straight intercourse.......those were freaking mind blowing orgasms.

Bronzedozzy
12-13-2002, 05:11 PM
I never had one..I fake it!

lizH
12-14-2002, 03:57 AM
I have them by penetration, with or without clitoral stimulation, through clitoral stimulation alone, with someone's tongue, someone's hand, my hand, a vibrator, sitting on my foot watching porn, sitting on my foot watching the weather... making me cum is easy. Preventing me from cumming is MUCH harder. :) :) :)

Oddly though, I actually enjoy some things about sex more when I don't cum as much. Go figure.

Irish
12-14-2002, 08:48 AM
I know that I'm not a woman but in all of my years and encounters,I have only known two women that had orgasms by
penetration alone.Even in masturbation,they did it that way. Irish
P.S.I have known a few that orgasm by penetration but they need
clitoral stimulation also!

SexKittten_18
12-17-2002, 05:50 PM
I normaly cum by clitoral stimulation...but recently I've discovered that if I mix penetration and clit stimuli, it feels even better than just one ^.^ I can cum by just about anything on my clit, but a tongue usually gets me there the quicklest.

pepsigirl
12-17-2002, 10:22 PM
9 times out of 10, it's just clitoral stimulation for me. There have been times that someone or my dildo just happened to be banging away on my G-spot and i came that way.

Cobalt
12-31-2002, 02:52 PM
Husband tells me to add very loudly and very wet!!! I squirt :D

airhog
01-02-2003, 02:57 AM
My S/O can cum both ways, she enjoys them both and I usually oblige. She likes the Clitoral simulation more. Tongue is the preferred method because I can guarantee an orgasm, with my fingers it usually gets to intense, but sometimes i can make her cum that way.

morrigan
01-04-2003, 05:24 AM
Clitoral stimulation is great, but my orgasms can be good with just penetration, yet not as good as clitoral/finger/mouth/vibrator stimulation.......I really prefer having my orgasms by my hubby's tongue. :fly:

What can I say, cunnilingus is wonderful. :p

Teddy Bear
01-13-2003, 12:04 AM
Clitoral stimulation by tongue, fingers, vibe, whatever.............. but like to be filled at the same time, by cock, fingers, etc. Only came once by G-spot alone and it was fantastic, has never been repeated...... YET ;) There's always tomorrow. :D

Teddy

tdronet
01-13-2003, 12:15 AM
I would be more then excited to help you out or even talk with you online if you like.

Xpose
02-10-2003, 01:26 PM
This has been very interesting, anyone else like to vote or add comments?

Mellisaaa
02-10-2003, 02:57 PM
I must say that I rarely have one from penetration alone. It was by my fingers unless a tongue happened to hit my clit just right, (fastest) until Sat. ~~~just got the bullit.......I'm going to have to start raiding the remotes soon! Or take a nap ;)

Rayna
02-10-2003, 05:33 PM
its all about the clit for me (im a clit girl)... the best way is def oral... i love a tongue licking and flickering at my clit

Lovediva
02-11-2003, 06:30 AM
Ladies, how do you cum?

With my legs spread!! ;) :D :D :p

dicksbro
02-11-2003, 06:35 AM
For my wife, external. I think there's only been a relatively few times when penetration really was enough. That's okay ... I love helping her achieve orgasm regardless of how. :D

huntersgirl
02-23-2003, 01:30 PM
I most definitely, need the clit stimulation, or at least some pressure there if my b/f is hitting my "sweet spot". Definitely agree with the comment of feeling emply if I cum without penetration. Usually use my own fingers to rub my clit while my b/f is banging away and ohhhhh baby is it ever great! But when I am alone, just a vibe on my clit or the water from the faucet in my tub, will do the trick! Not very hard for me to cum. Working on teaching myself how to cum by mind alone. I've heard of women able to do this and would love to be able to accomplish that one! Not sure it will be possible since I too am such a clit girl, but hey aren't we all?

Kimberly73
02-23-2003, 02:08 PM
With me its usually external stimulation first. I think anything involving my clit will do it. I especially love feeling his tongue on me...but fingers or vibrator will work too. Any of those will have me cumming very fast and get me very, very wet. After I cum though...I usually will cum through penetration too. It really isn't too difficult to get me to cum though I guess. I love it all!!!:D

Passion Please
02-28-2003, 02:49 AM
My wife needs clit or g stimulation like the rest of you...very consistent...she prefers stimulation by vibe or finger and loves my tongue...and loves the combination of penetration and external stimulation...but then we are still learning and exploring more and more....ahh add anal stimulation and we have it all....wild and incredible...

denny
02-28-2003, 03:22 AM
My lady likes it just like Lilith, while I stroke in and out, I use either my fingers or a vibe on her clitoral area.

TinkerBell69
02-28-2003, 10:45 AM
I've never came by penetration alone, fair enough if its banging away at your G Spot and you come, but for me, its not enough stimulation.

In saying that, there have been many times when I've been so close... just getting that tingly feelin, and then he's too tired. bless!

Dan99NY
02-28-2003, 11:57 AM
Lets here more about the females that squirt. That's very amazing. It gives the man visual proof that she came.

Do some of you squirt a little, while others have a more visual milky orgasm?

I like to tease the sweet spot even when my tongue is far away giving special attention to the inner thigh. I want the clit to throb and beg for attention.


Dan


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BlueSwede
03-02-2003, 03:02 AM
Depends on what kind of orgasm you're talking about. I can have what I call "firecracker" orgasms from what I'm thinking or fantasizing, with no touching involved. They're deep, quick, and powerful. Or G-spot orgasms from penetration. Or clitoral orgasms from clit stimulation alone. But my favorites--blended orgasms--are from simultaneous stimulation of my vagina and clit (and anus if it's manageable), whether the penetration is a penis or a dildo or fingers and whether the clit stimulation is from a tongue, fingers, or vibrator.

Dan99NY
03-05-2003, 01:54 PM
TinkerBell69 wrote:
In saying that, there have been many times when I've been so close... just getting that tingly feelin, and then he's too tired. bless!

If one day you stopped before he finished, maybe he would understand your frustration.

If he went down on you after he came he could keep you going while he regains a second hard on. Toss in a vibe, a few fingers with a need to get you off and everything would be fine.

Dan

Pussy Willow
03-08-2003, 10:44 AM
His sweet tongue on my clit, licking and sucking and licking and sucking my nipples get me off better that straight penetration.

Although there is NO substitute for a hard , well - placed dick.

(Squishy noises can also send me over the edge.)