Chas, I think you know more than you give yourself credit for, you've located the two most sensitive spots, without a road map! ;) You can also turn a guy on by gently licking and mouthing his balls, (of course you know no rough stuff here, but part of the thrill is he knows he's vunerable now). If you can keep stroking the shaft while sucking his balls, you'll drive him up the wall!
I don't know as I would say I feel dominated during a BJ, it does put men in a more passive role, where most other sex acts tend to make the woman the passive one (I know, that's a broad generalzation, work with me folks!) I also have a problem with this statement: To me, that implies that there might be a "bad" BJ... AIN'T NO SUCH THING... as they say, the worst I ever had was REAL good, it just didn't last long enough! And if I came, it was a GREAT BJ!
One last tip, Chas, if you want to guage your man's response, maintain some kind of contact (eye or physical) with his feet, when his toes curl, you've hit paydirt!

Sweet Chastity---That "sensitive" spot that you're refering to;between the asshole&scrotum;is called the"taint."It got its name;because;it taint his asshole&it taint his scrotum.Sorry;
couldn't resist.That is an "old joke."Male oriented.It; immediatly;
popped into my mind when I read your thread.I realise that you're
serious!You know me and my"wise-ass"remarks. Irish

LOL!

God I love this forum! Mostly because everyone here is so great and helpful!

Maybe I'm just anxious cuz of my new love interest, so I'm thinking a lot about what I'd love to do for him but I'm not at that stage yet! I can't wait!

Thanks again guys!

Sweet Chastity

Hi all

I was reading back and you were enquiring about lotions etc, any way I was took my partner with a mouthful of creme de meth (you know that green liquor). He said the coolling effects of the alcohol and the heat from the methol combined with a BJ was amazing.
Just a hint from experience don't use port it just burns

Have a good New Year

Hey Don,
Do you have the name of that cream? I think my wife would love it. (I mean the heat lotion)LOL. BTW when I read the male responses to Keith I decided that this was definately a great place. :)

luv2please---Allow me to welcome you even more.Your view on
the male responces;show that you are the kind of person that
belongs here! Irish
P.S.My opinion.Different strokes for different folks!!I have 2 daughters so I am very sensitive to the way that women are
treated.

Altoids
 

Did someone mention Altoids? I had trouble getting started in this particular area but I heard that if you gave a BJ with an ALtoid in your mouth it served 2 puposes. Fresh breath and the cooling effect like justLindy mentioned with the creme de menthe. I have always preferred the cinnamon Altoids and my hubby says it gets really hot!!!!!!! I heard a comedian once say,"It's a BJ for God's sake no improvement is necessary"! True or not, experimentation is always a good thing! Tootles!

** BUMP **

Another thread from before my time at Pixies. Still, it was a good question from Sweet Chastity. Both intercourse and oral sex are wonderful ... and, I think can be for both parties. Which is better? I'm not sure either is really better. I think a couple of the turn-ons for men is being able to see the acceptance that I woman shows when she is willing to accept her man orally ... and the other is the flexibility of the tongue to tease and excite the penis is a variety of ways. The main thing, I believe for me anyway is to feel like my wife is enjoying what she is doing and realizes how much her caring means to me. Feeling truly loved is probably the greatest sensation of all almost regardless of the physical activities.

Thanks db. That's so true!

Sweet Chastity
 

Thats a hot thread.

Depends sometimes I like coming by being sucked off, but only if she is ok with that. I will always go down on her, either at the same time or after or before.

Something very sensitive and intimate about a woman sucking your cock. Your technique sounds great.

Other times its foreplay and gets my cock so hard and ready to fuck.

W

The way OP describes bj's is delicious. If I had to choose, I would go with intercourse, cause I love hearing her 'sing', but I don't mind a good old blowey at all.