Size
 

Well...I would have to say that from my perspective, size doesn't ALWAYS matter...meaning that if someone is a bit smaller but knows how to use it...then certainly the size doesn't matter.

Then again, the full feeling a woman gets by having a nice wide cock in her, most definately feels wonderful and someone with a nice length can hit some of those spots that smaller cocks just can't seem to reach.

Again though, if you know how to use it along with your hands, tongue, body....then penis size just doesn't seem to be an issue...at least for me.

:) Gyzsmo

Average size + caring attention = great satisfaction!
 

Gyzsmo-

Since I first went on the Web in 1992, I've enjoyed researching sex and sexuality, and one thing I learned is that my "size" is exactly in the average range. In addition, both my wife and I were very inexperienced and came from sexually-repressed families... Not a promising start!

However, I discovered very quickly what a high I got by giving my wife as many orgasms as possible by using whatever techniques she wanted (she never could mentally accept cunnilingus or fellatio!) She always found my fingers stimulating her clit and cunt lips while I was also sucking and nibbling on her nipples to be extremely crazy-making. VBG

Within a few weeks, I could keep her bouncing off the walls for an hour or two quite easily, and I got as much release as I could ever hope for. Once, before I hit 30, we made it almost all night, and I had to clean up and dash off to work in a hurry. In those days, a good sexual high was as good as a full night's sleep!

My love never asked to try, but did you mean it would help an average or smaller penis do a better job of stimulating you if your partner also inserted a finger or two or a toy inside you at the same time to give you that "full feeling?" Do you know if the so-called "lifelike" penis extensions actually produce better results for the woman?

I hope you don't mind nosey questions, but, please remember,
they call me... MrCuriousUSA ;)

MrCuriousUSA

Don't mind questions at all!!

Honestly, I've never used nor seen any kind of penis extenstions, so can't really answer that one!

The use of fingers in making one feel fuller...certainly works great...but as I only orgasm through clitoral stimulation...as long as my partner knows what they are doing and how to use their fingers on my clit...then everything works great.

Although I'm not big on anal intercourse (unless with a smaller sized penis man), when someone is plunging in and out of my cunt and rubbing my clit...a finger inserted into my ass drives me out of this world!!!!

:o Gosh, I'm getting wet here!!!

I've never really used alot of toys at all (have only one large purple vibrator) I'd be interesting in hearing about whatever kinds are out there and how they work.

It'd be great if everyone could show a picture of their collections and if not obvious, explain their uses!!! I unfortunately do not have a digital camera at all so can't do that.

Gyz

Gyzsmo,

Got a question for you...maybe you can hep maybe not. How did you decide to TRY anal?? I've done it before ....but my wife and I are falling into a rut, and I want to try and see if she'll go for it..but we dont talk about sex. It's more along the lines of we just do it.

Got any suggestions?

Starting anal
 

Hi Nutworld,

My b/f and I just talked about it, he said he'd like to try it, I said maybe sometime, eventually I warmed up to and now we incorperate it into our regular play at least once a week. How I'd suggest starting without talking is while you're eating her out, use your finger to play with her clit/pussy, then maybe lick the anal opening a little, if she doesn't object to this, then maybe move your mouth to where your hand is and get your finger good and wet. Slowly start playing with the area with your finger, inserting a little, see how she responds and go from there.

Good Luck!

Jenny

Well, I myself know that I am average in length, but make up for it in width. I am also really good with my tongue, mouth, fingers, and body. At least no vocal complaints that I know of. :)
As for toys, well there are a lot out there. It all depends on what you are into and what you want to try out. There are various sizes of dildos and vibrators, anal plugs, anal beads, ben wa balls (a personal favorite for my lady), you name it and it is probably out there. I know that in another thread Kim posted a link to an online toy store. I think it is in the thread about Realistic Vaginas, but I have looked through it and have found a few interesting toys that I plan to add to my collection in the near future.

I agree with JennyD
 

Hi Nutworld:

I'm in agreeance with Jenny...that's exactly how it started with me and my ex the first time. He was eating me out while playing with my clit and he casually started licking my ass (which is just the most WONDERFUL feeling!!) and fingering my cunt for me....it just got me so hot that I wanted to try anything just to have an orgasm...I have to say I did enjoy it immensely even though my ex had a pretty big cock...but then again...it was not something we did on a regular occasion.

I would try to get your woman so hot and juicy....let her orgasm build and build until she just wants anything inside of her...anywhere....just ensure that you are still rubbing her clit though!!! I think that's the secret...

Hope that helps..

Cheers, Gyz

Toys for girls and boys...
 

Hi Dunchad:

They all sound very interesting....I've heard of the Ben Wah Balls and the others ofcourse but never had the opportunity to try most of them...but man, I would love to!!!

I find most of the toys are better built for two...vib's and dildos are great for a single gal but the Ben Wah and the anal beads...you just need some help I would think??? Now...have you ever used any of the toys on yourself ;) !?! Do guys use these kinds of things???

I know how touchy some men can be about this kind of thing but I've always thought that man...if it feels that great for me...it must feel just as great for you guys???

Chow for now....

Cheers, Gyz

Toys, yes!
 

Gyz, I have to say that I love having my ass toyed with. I think guys are just like women; the ones that give in to their carnal desires enjoy anal stimulation, the ones that are more uptight don't.

It's hard to beat a blow job with a finger sliding in my ass! Makes me cum a little too fast though! When I masturbate (with the proper time allowance) I like to use a vibe or anal beads and stroke my cock while I watch some downloaded anal porn.

I have a bit of a fetish for the butt. I don't want a piece of ass... I want the whole thing!

Toys
 

I have used a vibe on my balls and around my cock while masturbating. Every once in a while I will go a littel lower, but never put it inside my own ass though.

No ass play??
 

Any specific reason why you've never gone in...or just not comfortable with it...???

When my ex first did it...I have to say I was a little bit leary but after having an orgasm in like 2 seconds (not kiddin' here) flat...it kind of took all the inhabitions away...

Doesn't your current lady love like to play in the back door?

Gyz