Sex drive... Is it just me?
 

I have a very high sex drive. 1-2 times daily would keep me happy. I've never gone more than a month without sex since becoming sexually active at 15. Thank god I'm a woman, because it really is easier to get laid. My boyfriend is great, we only live together part time, and for the most part have similar drives, but there are times where I still want it and HE just wants to cuddle. I just wonder, how many other women and men have experienced where the woman has the higher sex drive.

Anyone?

I know we all vary but thought this would be a fun to "investigate"
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Makes Me Think
 

Of the Beach Boys, "Oh, wouldn't it be nice...."

Though I think of sex often, I don't quite have the opportunity to fulfill those thoughts.

More power to ya, JennyD!

It's a cliché to say, JennyD, but where were the girls like you when I was growing up?

Hell, where are the girls like you NOW? :sad:

Just kidding. When I was younger I loved and wanted sex as much as I do now, but I probably wouldn't have appreciated nor complimented a partner with a high sex drive as much as I would now. My own drive waxes and wanes a little bit due to mood or state of inebriation, but my mind is perpetually wired horny...so if my body's up for it and there's time...

It's only been lately that I've craved sex more than him & it might have just been that last relationship . . . maybe my next one will be different. It could also be because I'm in my early 30s & hitting my peak.

I'm hearing you sister!

I definitely have a higher sex drive than he does, and it's always me that ends up initiating sex. I'm sure the fact that he's less keen than me, just makes me even more keen!

I think i must have a fairly average sexul apetite, as i have had complaints for not being interested.... and for being too interested. As i don't think i vary much in that department, i guess its all just relative.

Now the lady who was keener than me quite clearly was getting fed up with always making the first moves (and i do know what thats like as of course i have been in the opposite situation).

So its interesting to read your email, it certainly made me smile.

And for the record, i could do with a woman thats keener than me currently!

Ah but would you want one that's 8 and a bit months pregnant?!

I generally have a higher sex drive than Mr Osuche, although I go through peaks and troughs. I think I'm in a trough lately -- been too busy with work and life and school etc. to think much about sex.

So, I initiate. And I masturbate. A lot. :D

We go at eachother like animals. Its one of the best parts of our relationship, both of us totally insatiable. :69:

She just hit her thirties and she has been hunting my like a jungle cat ever since.

That could be a very tasty fetish for as long as it lasts, if one has preggo inclinations...

I've always had a very high sex drive. When the woman I'm dating is wanting sex more than me then I know the relationship is hitting the rocks.

I have met women who have a sex drive equal to mine and I love that. I like a woman who isn't afraid to be agressive and let me know what she wants when she wants it.

That sounds a bit like us. My sweetie revs up easily most of the time and can be convinced at other times with just a bit of foreplay. I think I am lucky. Because of my age, I partake of some wonderful chemicals that build the desire and then fire up my engines. Great stuff! :thumb:

we vary. sometimes it's me with the insatiable drive and sometimes it's him.

While sex is great...I'd love more intimacy.

I initiate 98% of the time and I wish sometimes that she would. I, like you jennyD, have a very high sex drive and average 1-2 O's a day....... every day. She'd be content 1-2 times a month...maybe. So like osuche, masturbation is ummmmm.... frequent!