Posting at Pixies
 

I felt that i would have been taking over the "Bored " thread by continuing to discuss this issue there...so i answered here


Ok Irish.....did i say anywhere in my earlier post that it was compulsary to post a pic....to me if ppl post a pic..i feel honoured that they have chosen to share the pic with us here...if they dont post a pic...well that to me is cool too...

But even though you have no camera...you still manage to post your views here at Pixies....thats mainly what i was getting at...the contribution issue....there are over 4500 members here....how many do we here from?...an odd post here and there from them lets us other members get to know them...

And before anyone gets at me...i also know that posting isnt compulsary....but the posts is what makes Pixies...and it would be nice to ocassionally hear from members other than the Regs

Sharniqua

Well said Sharnie!!!!!

I couldn't agree more!!!!

Sharniqua and Diva,
As a relatively new member here maybe I can bring some insight here. I was very concerend about my first posts because I didn't know if my thoughts would be accepted by the others here. Attitudes toward sex and the topics that go with it are very different for everyone and sometimes when I post I feel a little nervous that my thoughts, opinions, desires ect. may not be accepted or even worse might offend someone. However, I have been made to feel very welcome here and the hesitstion to post is pretty much gone, mainly thanks to people like Diva, Sharniqua, Irish, Don and many others.(PF does make me a little nervous though)LOL So for those of you who are hesitant, don't be. Chances are if you think your ideas or thoughts are too kinky or strange to post, they are the ones you SHOULD post.LOL ;)

Posting
 

Pixies is a forum, ie, a place to voice opinions and to

join in the fellowship of community.

All it needs is an occasional Hi and and an occasional

opinion.

Like Irish, I don't have a digital camera and NASA won't

reconfigure Hubble to get a picture past my gut.

I, again like Irish and so many others here, do play an

active part in the exchange of ideas and the funny and

supportive chat that happens here.

All it takes is wanting to be a part. We won't always agree,

but we listen and speak without fear among friends.

All that without the milkcrate, Diva.

Sorry Oldfart, I forgot to mention, YOU scare me too!!LOL:p

Feeling downright impotent here...I don't merit a mention... I don't even frighten anyone anymore... do I want to be respected, or feared...






BOO!

Re: Posting...(sorry OF,.....I was running back with the soap box....
 

…but I could see that you are standing on the shoulders of the Pixie family.

I agree with Sharnie and Diva. But I also see what luvsplease means too. It took me a while to get the guts to post anything. But now I am addicted to this site.

And Scoitzoidman, don't feel bad I wasn't mentioned either. Guess we're not regular enough for mentioning huh! :( :( :confused:

Hi Scotzoidman,

Don't say that! I love you posts - I think you have a great sense of humour.

I am new to pixies and have been finding my way around, and wondering if my posts will be ok and won't offend and stuff like that. I am trying to get into the groove (so to speak), and hope to post more often soon.

Hey scotz&prophet,
Sorry, and I kind of knew this might happen. Thats why if you read my original post it says "and many others". See, you guys are the "many others" so you were mentioned. If I offended I deserve to be punished, so Diva, as the person in charge here, it is your job to punish me. PLEEEEEEEESE!

Xanne----Just be yourself;when you post.Unless you outright insult
people;they will respect your views.When;I was younger(and
drinking);I thought that if you had different views; from my own;
that you were wrong.I now realise that;just because;others have
different outlooks;it doesn't make them bad people.It doesn't take long to figure who are bad people.If they(the people here);
don't like your individual views;they will let you know or tell you
their views.By the way-Welcome to Pixies!Jump in.I would loan the soapbox back to Oldfart but I so enjoy using it.Besides;He is
getting used to that milkcrate. Irish

Personally, I'm a lot more comfortable posting words than pictures... I love all the pictures people have posted here, and I do enjoy taking pics of my own as well (or at least I did when my camera was working... :( ), but so far I haven't been able to get up the courage to post anything. I think it might be easier to share pics if I knew every single person that was going to see them --- the thought of someone I know (from the so-called 'real world') seeing me has me petrified, I have to admit. However, when I see all the positive feedback that other people have received from their posts, I'm sorely tempted...

One thing I've found, regardless of whether I post pics or not, is that the opportunity to discuss things sexual here has had a big impact on how I feel about myself. I'm pretty inexperienced, I'll be the first to admit it (take every piece of advice I offer with a grain of salt, please!), and I was never really sure how my technique measured up with that of other women. It always felt great doing it, but there was this nagging doubt... I've received some great feedback on the thoughts that I've offered, which has helped to erase those doubts... I also was nervous about feeling sexy, because every time you see a representation of someone 'sexy' in the media or wherever, their figure always looks quite different than mine! But coming here (or cumming here? :D ) I've realized that the sexiest people here are the ones who are really comfortable in their own bodies, able to just relax in their own skins and really enjoy themselves. There are so few people (if any!) who fit the stereotypes of what is supposed to be sexy, and yet everyone here is sexy!

So, pics or not, I'm here to stay! ;)

--- sweetstuff

I post only when I feel that I have something to say that I feel strongly about.I see no reason to repeat what other people aree saying.I do check this site all the time and enjoy being here. Nuff said.
Red

I guess it really comes down to what you are comfortable with. I don't tend to post a lot (either on this board or others) as I do not usually have much to add to many of the discussions that are taking place on the board(s). In the case of this board there is the exception... the photos section. When people finally get past their anxiety about posting a pic (as I am sure that many have) I think that it is reassuring to the poster if there is good positive feedback... even if the comments might be repetitive in nature.

Just my 0.002 :)

SFC
 

If you are at all worried about posting, take a leaf out

of the book of many of the posters - no face.

Tastefully turned away or blanked out, doesn't matter.

The only person that really matters is you.