Substitute?
 

For sex? Is there anything that helps when the magic is just not happening?

You mean besides my hand?

There is always the fantasy of pretending you are with someone else.

Meditation, throwing yourself into your job, etc. But those are only temporary fixes.

Toys :D ;) :D And a healthy imagination.

Some people like dancing.

But I'll stick with sex, thanks.

Hell no.

Why not hang out on these forums?

Tune into the sensuality others, you'd be surprised some of the vibes they give off. Ride the wave and enjoy!

I like chocolate quite a lot....does that count?

I find that books can be equally satisfying.




Yet hardly interchangable. ;)

The world is full of substitutes, none of them satisfactory.

There's jogging at least you get to hear heavy breathing

Showtime On Demand and a six pack

I just try to 'be' the other person. I'm leopard-like trying to figure out what would make him purrrrrrrrrrr. I discover lots about him and me that way.

Well, Mr Hand and I do get on well especially in the shower. That helps some.