Why doesnt my girlfriend like.....?
 

I got a question to all the ladies out there

why doesnt my girlfriend like oral sex? my girlfriend doesn't like to give me head, becuz she doesnt like the way it tasste (accordiing to her anyways), and not only that, she doesnt like me to eat her out. Even though i love to eat girls out, she doesnt want me to do it to her. And she doesnt like me to finger her either.

Anyone have a reason for this?

Yes ...she is young and possibly still uncomfortable with her own sexuality let alone yours. Time, patience, and a non judgemental attitude will go a long way towards helping her to begin the process of throwing off the typical stereotypes that girls arre fed since birth. We are supposed to look like we want it but not actually want it...lol....go slow and move at a pace she is comfortable with....work with in her comfort zone and then she will slowly begin trusting you (and her own feelings)to lead her in to more adventurous sex.

yep.. I agree being young is probably the hang up.. and only time and gentle encouragement will be the only thing that gets her to open up. The longer she is with you, and the more comfortable she feels in her own skin the better the odds that she will open her self up...

I know the feeling.We are a young couple and my wife is going through the same thing right now.Although i know some of our problem is just having the baby but still i know where your coming from.

Just a thought here but....ok...I am blurting it out! Is she (and her family) very religious? OK....wait....before you get all over me for this, please hear me out!

A lot of religions condone sex (intercourse) for the purpose of procreation. All other forms of sexual behavior are unnecessary and do not aid the ultimate purpose, children! Foreplay is not a factor........and is drummed into you from the time that sex is introduced into your awakening! You have sex and you tolerate his advances for the purpose of procreation.

If you do not know her religious beliefs......ASK! If she is shy and/or she was a virgin before you came along....TALK! If none of the above applies.................drop back five and punt!

Mrs. Lix

pje, hang in there, I know from personal exp. many new moms have some post-partum depression...if she's suffering with it, you'll suffer with her...and she won't even know why...

woohoo, first post, and although it may sound like a joke, its serious...

you're cum may taste horrible.

moderate your diet, eat lots of fruit for the natural sugars to make it taste sweeter, and don't eat fish.

i can't explain the eating out, maybe its because she <i>isn't</i> totally at ease, sexually. give it time and don't force anything, maybe she'll come to enjoy it later on in the relationship.

dammit, why don't html tags work here?

vB

thats what i meant...kinda

it should still work though, shouldn't it?

and excuse the crap grammar in my post, its 3am

GldnCgr348, I think ur gf still aren't very comfortable doing it with u. Maybe she still feel very embarrass having sex with u. She might think u don't like what her pussy taste. I guess do some talking with him might do the trick. Try asking her what she like when u are making love with her. When she feel comfortable with it, I believe she will let u do whatever thing u want too :)

Good luck!

I have the same problem, but she doesn't have a problem at all with me going down on her.

GldnCgr348, some perspective please.

Does this girlfriend live with you, or are you still courting?

She seems a lot less interested in the physical relationship

than you. What is the relationship?

Are you in a loving relationship or are you just chasing the physical?

I'm not getting heavy, but the facts are thin on the ground.

Tell us, we're interested to help.

no i dont live with my girlfriend

we've been going out for almost for a year already

and actually she has mad more sex experience than me

she does tell me all the time on the rare occasions that i do go down on her, she always is worried that it taste bad, im always telling her it doesnt and i love doing it, but she still doesnt like me to do it

All she want is sex, she is not interested in any foreplay.

interesting huh?

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my girl is pretty much the same, she loves to be licked but won't return the favour because she was told by her ex she was rubbished and ran her down with every thing, i have told her she is the best, well she is, i have never been sucked to orgasm before, maybe its me, i don't know the advice up the top doesn't seem to work, do i have to put up with it never hapenning?