Have you ever tired your partner out during sex?
 

Well I did a few days ago lol...It was the first time we had sex together and yeah things were going great and all, I came, she came and on to round 2 after 5-10min break ;)

So i turn her around and doggy her for like 20 mins and flip over to do some missionary for 10 and then she rode me (5-10 mins)and eventually she came quite hard (could feel the contractions and all...I still didn't so i gave her a moment after her O) and proceeded to my big O # 2. So then she whispers into my ear that I'm getting a little sore down there lol...

At that point I just told her well how bout some oral finish and she gave me head for about 10 mins and just settled on jacking me off instead ;)

Is there anyway I could increase her stamina? Cuz to be honest I don't think I was anywhere near cumming on my 2nd round and I probably could've gone doggy for another 30mins before climaxing when she said she started feeling sore.

Thanks for any advice.

I repeatedly tire him out. ;)


Seriously.... if it was a first time thing, try it a few more times before giving up. Every guy feels different, and it takes a while for a girl's body to accomodate a new penis. :) Seriously, your body has to get used to friction in new places. Also, she will eventually come to understand how to push your buttons.

I suspect that two things will happen - (1) she will get more used to longer sessions, and (2) she'll figure out how to make you cum more quickly, thus meeting you in the middle. :)

Good luck

Yep, been in that situation a time or two. Then again I've been the one with less stamina before too.

Be interested to read some of the responses on suggestions for increasing your girlfriend's stamina.

You could also try some lube on the second go round.

Talk to PF about the numbers. Between the two of you, you may be able to crunch a whole new approach.

Is that when they roll over and fall asleep?

No man in the world can look down longer than a woman can look up. :cool:

Have you tested that theory and is the inverse true too?

:roflmao:

That needs to be on a bumper sticker PF!!! :thumb:

come on guys i'm serious ;) I'm looking for suggestions here, i got lube for one and yeah we could use lube but she gets very wet to the piont where when i was entering her from behind we were making "slurpy sounds" cuz of the wetness. And the sheets afterwards...omg i've never seen such wet sheets before...i think we were sweating a lot like it was a workout type of deal hahah...there was this one spot on the bed that was just SOAKED..so it was otherwise her wetness or just body perspiration...

it was funny though cuz now that i think about it...i did grab my gatorade in the middle of it all and drank it all down LOL ;)

Have more sex more often... endurance sex training.

I'd also suggest feeding her "anticipation" - build it up throughout the day when possible. I love that... Call her mid day and tell her what you want to do to her explicitly.. or send her a hot text message.

Just some ideas... :)

Kenshin,

It's not about how long you do it, but about how much fun the both of you have doing it. I've had mindblowing sex that lasted less than 10 minutes, and sex that went ho-hum after 30.

Each time is different, and until you get this performance/goal thing out of your head, it will never be good enough.

Performance anxiety has many faces.

Lasting really long is good if your both enjoying it.. otherwise.. wrap it up.

If she's getting sore, it's either friction (need more lube, or she wasn't that in to it, or she was and she just dries up, all can happen) or like with my woman, I'm a big guy 6'3 215, me pounding on her for a long time puts alot of pressure on her.

I have many times, and to my everlasting delight, vice versa

WW

A few times over our long marriage, but probably not as often as I wish … :(