tell me what you think
 

i am a straight guy who has been married for the past two years to a wonderfull woman. when i was 14 years old i experimented a little bit with my best freind who is also a guy. we started off by watching porn together and jerking off and soon it progressed to getting eachother off manually and then finally orally. this all lasted for about one year. during this time we both had girlfreinds who did not have any idea what was going on. when we turned 15 he moved far away and since then i have only been with other women. the problem is that i still fantasize about what went on with him. i love having sex with my wife but have noticed that at least half of my fantasies have been about guys. i am not atracted to other men i meet in the street i think it is only their cocks that i think of. when i look back on my prior experiences with my freind i remember how much i liked to suck his cock and would love to again. i do not belive that i am gay because i am not attracted to men on sight but just remember how much i enjoyed sex with my freind. i guess i am asking for the opinoin of anyone who reads this, do you think i am gay, bi or just straight and confused. also i have a very honest relationship with my wife, she tells me everything and i feel bad that i never told her about my freind. do tou think i should tell her about him and my current fantasies. let me know what you think. i really would like to hear from men and women. so either post a reply or just send me an e-mail.

shyguy1@pixies-place.net

I think that you DEFINATELY SHOULD NOT tell her!
What if it ruined everything?
What could possibly be worse than messing up a perfectly good relationship.

Please be careful! Once it's done, you can't unsay it.

Personally, if I was female and your wife and you told me that, I'd be shocked, betrayed and well pissed off!

but of course it's up to you!! I hope whatever you do turns out ok, but I don't see what good would come out of you telling her.

I can only think of bad points.

I also have a fantasy (strictly) of sucking cock, but I would never do it, and never let anyone know!!

oh don't tell!
 

what you fantasize about and have memories of...is pefectly normal...I have a very desireable best friend and find myself very attracted to her...but, I don't find myself attracted to other women...I think it has something to do with the personal bond and friendship that she and I share...so, just keep your fantasies and your memories to yourself...it doesn't make you gay...just normal....I'm sure other men (and women) have the same thoughts and attractions but, they just keep it to themselves...I repeat...don't tell your wife.

Dude!!!
 

Keep your mouth shut... Even if you decide to play around with guys to test the waters... Keep your mouth shut... Women aren't as understanding as men about stuff like that... I know I would'nt stress it if I found out my significant other ate out another chick, but she wouldn't be happy if she knew I sucked cock...

SicKz