The Big Step
 

I finally made a "big" decision. My bf and I have been dating for almost 3 months now and we got to hang out Monday night and all day Tuesday. It was wonderful. We cashed in our V-cards to each other Monday night and I have to say, nothing could have prepared me for such new sensations. I expected it to hurt (and oh buddy did it ever) but I think a lot of it was nerves, leading to clenched muscles. Tuesday rolled around and we added on another 4 times......I think I'm well on my way to being addicted, lol. Anywho, if any of you have any suggestions for us newbies, PLEASE help us out by giving us some tips!

Thanks!! :jump:

make sure you are using water based lube with the condoms...will make things easier

Wow! Thanks for sharing this with us! Just go with the flow baby.
And lots and lots of foreplay. ;)

Have fun! With the sex and with each other. Sex is supposed to be fun! :D

AV -- COngratulations, and have fun. Love each other well. :wine:

I love that Pixies is a place where people can come and say 'Guess what.....' like this.

When I lost my virginity I was desperate to kind of share my excitement about it with someone, but I couldn't....wish I could have come to somewhere like Pixies and say 'OMG I had sex for the first time last night!'.

Congrats AV:

Love + trust + communication = great sex and a great relationship! :D

I’m very happy for both of you. It IS a wonderful experience and one of life’s true treasures. As Loulabelle has said,:) it’s very nice to have a place and people to share such an important event. I’m happy to be here for your entrance into a whole new world.

Advice? :rolleyes2 …………….. You have a complete life to explore and experience. Go SLOW and enjoy. It really does make it better. :)

explore and commmunicate--the two most important elements i can think of. if you do those the fun will automatically follow ;)

i whole heartedly agree with ya loulabelle!!!!
without trust there is no love! and communication is aways good... tell each other what you like, or dont like. explore and have a good time

Talk to each other, never be afraid to say I liked that or I really didn't or how bout we try this.

Love each other!!

And have fun!!!!!!!!!!!! :) :D

Congratulations on finding the right lover to share that with!




I couldn't agree more!

Just happened to remember that I posted this. I reread it and thought "OMG, 4 times?!?! What the hell happened to that????" Now that I have a new bf, things are different...let's just say that patience is NOT one of my virtues, lol (but I guess I gotta deal with it *le sigh*). My name is AV and I am a crazy nympho...

Go wild safely, you will love yourself for it later.

....... and your partner when you have one. ;)

Oh I have one....he is just making us wait...forever...lol