This is a great question that I'm sure many have pondered!

I'm all for good hot chatting. However, if someone is in a relationship, they should be disclosing to their partner if they are doing things on-line with other people. I'm a big fan of keeping everything in the open. Whenever we try to hide things or justify questionable practices to ourselves, I think we run the risk of creating really large problems down the line and ultimately hurting our partners. The other thing to keep in mind is to ask ourselves, would it be totally ok with me if my partner was doing this behind my back and not telling me? While we all like to think we would be totally open to our partner doing those things, the sting of reality is another thing.

Alter