I know what u mean... He was so gentle and kind, not like my other ex-pigs. Thank god there is Viagra now :yellghst: . Unfortunately he is TOO kind, i want it rough. Please give advice... am i crazy? He is every womens dream, good looking, kind, gentle, romantic... but still i dont know... im so confused, im 21, hes 31. I feel i need to live out my youth before i settle with him. Argh, this topic drives me mad!!!