You mention that the headaches began as you began to be

intimate with your new fellow.

It is a not uncommon thing for splitting headaches to start at the

escalation of a long period of sexual tension.

If these headaches are just that, they won't kill you, just piss you off.

However, check with a specialist if you've concerns.

Relax, approach with joy and see if the headaches persist.

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