Actually for those that don't visit bars/clubs/pubs (i'm not heavy into these locations myself but hey i'm not one to pass down the opportunity) bookstores are great...and come on you get to read some interesting material in the erotic section too heheh. make a simple comment about the book they are reading or heck even grocery stores can be interesting sometimes...Find a girl looking like she doesn't know what she wants in the sushi section and pop in your advice.

here's a situation that's been bugging me at work now...there's this girl at work and i can swear we've crossed eyes before but given that its a work environment and i want to remain professional and all how do i come across knowing whether she's with someone or not...she's in a different dept area which kinda of blows for me but we meet up in the photocopying room from time to time...but aside from the idle chit chat about work for 30 secs i haven't been able to figure out anything beyond that lol.