Lilith.. you are correct... everything is a risk online.. I have been very cautious about posting things here (or anywhere else) that would reveal my identity. I am not so sure that my decision to do so is strictly in fear that whatever I posted would end up somewhere I don't want it to... or if it is more about an insecure self esteem issue (I imagine more the later is the real reason). I have found, that the more I get to know people here... the more tempted I am to reveal more of myself... and I do think I will be doing that soon....