It's all a crapshoot for better or for worse, whether it is in real life or the net (the net being worse in my experience, but that is just me). You do what you can, when you can and basically have to hope for the best, I know that sounds almost...pathetic but it's true. Nothing can be forced as much as you might wish or hope for it. But don't mind my post, I am cynical at the moment, so perhaps I am not helping...

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"And as we all play parts of tomorrow, some ways will work and other ways we'll play. And I know we can't all stay here forever, so I'll write, my words on the face of today...and then they'll paint it" - Shannon Hoon