Varying the angle can make a differnece, one trick is to try - lay across the bed on your back with your head hanging over the edge, him on his knees and then you pull him to you...taking as much as you can... slowly... ever so slowly... find a rhythm for your breath and your puuuuulllll... easse in and back... a little more each time.... and try to find your "zen" spot. I like it when he talks to me...

okay that may be a start... to help.

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