Is Mr. Lil feeling disconnected as well?

Twice now I was in a situation where I had to abstain from sex because of surgical procedures, and three times it was Mrs. WI that had to avoid intercourse after childbirth. In each case, it was more difficult for me than it was for her. Not for the lack of sex, but for the lack of intimacy. Mrs. WI is not a huggy & kissy person, so without the intimacy of sex...well, there weren't many other viable options. Sitting around holding hands lost it's luster quickly.

Leave him notes, with each leading to the other, and the last one leading to you on the couch. Give him a kiss when he arrives and tell him you miss being close.

If that doesn't work, tell him your breasts ache for his tongue. That one always works for me.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.