Like jseal and Lil, I can track some of my troughs to stress and work.....a little stress keeps me keyed up and I want sex bad. A lot of grinding daily stress makes my libido vanish.

Some of it is body image, and some of it (I think) must be Pixie dust.

Interesting replies, though....I suspected others might have similar cycles.

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