Classydj;

I'm a Psychiatric nurse, and I reckon your problem is almost certainly due to the Efexor - one of the side-effects of SSRI's is alteration in sexual function, usually delayed ejaculation, and a change in medication will probably be beneficial to you. (and your g/f)

So yeh, go see your doctor, but most of all - DON'T WORRY!

Good luck.

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