I still like Lou's idea of a moneyless date. Perhaps even jusst going somewhere a little cheaper. If you've taken her somewhere out of her price range then she might even be grateful to go somewhere that she can help foot the bill. Or she might feel insulted, what do I know...

The way I was brought up means that I hate to have anyone pay my way. I can't even borrow money from my parents without making sure I can pay them back quickly. It's annoyed my OH a bit, cause sometimes he just wants to treat me and I find it hard to let him. I'm getting there though, but I normally find some way to pay for both of us at another time to make it up. It's just a personal thing, I guess.