Cheating is a "me" thing, not an "us" thing and you can't do "us" and "me" at the same time.

I am such a tart that cheating is a natural part of me, but the pain it causes the person/people who trust/s you isn't worth the gratification.

When the trust is more important to you than the genital buzz,there's no conflict.

When the genital buzz is more important, forget the idea of a relationship.

Easy!

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