I do it with respect and affection...because I'm appreciative. I can't imagine not expressing gratitude. In my mind, it's more of a "thank you for being mine so that we can share this wonderful experience together" rather than "thanks for letting me blow my load in you". Knowing Mrs. WI's personality...she'd let me know if she took it the wrong way. lol

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.