At the end of a very fancy wedding reception, Mrs. WI played the part of a horny & drunken woman out to seduce the happily married nerd (masterfully played by yours truly). There was just something so wrong about me telling her "please don't...I'm married, please...no" while she was molesting me & telling me she didn't care about my wife and that she needed to get fucked & I was just there.

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.