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It was a very long time until my wife HotAsJuly was comfortable in trying it. You must use a lot of lube and start off with your pinky and only go as far as she wants it.

Ask her why she thinks it is icky. That was one of the hurdles for us. Take a nice hot bath with each other. Make her relax. Have her lay down and give her a full body massage with either baby oil or best yet, use Olive Oil. Olive Oil is susposed to help stretch out the muscles and if you use it down there, should be more comfortable for her. Let her know that you would like to try it just once...and in the middle or at the end if she doesn't want it anymore or doesn't want it again, respect that, but just be patient. If you get on her about it, she may never do it.

Hope this helps and I wish you the best.