The keys to great anal sex are relaxation and good lube. My hubby suggested it a few months ago and I said sure. I found out that if he's really lubed up ( we use astroglide) and then I relax when he enters (that part is a little uncomfortable, but I just breathe hard and tell him to enter slowly) then once he's in, it is great. We pump deep and hard and it's wonderful, I cum everytime! BTW I used to finger myself while he did me anally and that got him so hot that he likes to finger me now while he's pounding me and I play with my breasts. It's great. But I do agree it's best to start with a well-lubed finger and work your way up. I want to finger his ass while he masterbates. I haven't brought it up yet, but I will one day when he's really hot...


P.S. It's perfectly normal for straight guys to like a little ass play. It doesn't mean they're gay or bi!