Amother problem is that many men are kind ,sensitive and caring
at the outset of a realationship, but as soon as they have sex
with a woman, the realationship changes.

Also most women are a little wary that "niceguys" are just acting
that way to get them into the bedroom.

How long have you dated a woman before deciding she was
"intimidated by your sexuality". You have to give them the time to realize that you are sincere, that may take a while.

You also give youself a chance to find out if the one your with
is really what she says she is.

It's really unfortunate that we have to play these games, that we
just can't depend on people being nice, but yourselves the chance
to get to know each other a little bit, BEFORE having sex, may
save both of you major hang-ups later on !!!!!!!!

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