With regard to non-consensual....No, not my style.

With regard to "uncomfortable fantasies"....OH YES..INDEED!

Some fantasies are potentially unhealthy...perhaps illegal!!...but are harmless when kept in the realm of fantasy. I am lucky enough to be able to (thus far at least) keep fantasy and reality completely separated.

As high sexual people, we here at Pixie's must never fail to realize that our fantasy may in fact be another's greatest fear and nightmare.

The power of sex in our lives is soooo strong...for good...and for ill. For those that sometimes have difficulty remembering this, just stop for a moment to remember your first sexual experience. I bet you remember it well. I'll bet that single experience has made a significant impact on the direction your life has taken. Also stop for a moment to consider how BAD first experiences impact people...ie: abuse. Have you heard how many victims of priests in Boston have committed suicide?? It is staggering.

Not sure why I am on a soapbox today, but I sometimes fear that sexual fun and games can make us blind to some ugly truths.