Thanks LordSnow & PF

Fortunately, I have found a man who doesn't want me to do anything that I am not comfortable with. Over the last several years I have often fantasized about the possibility of MMF... and I have developed a fantasy regarding Gloryholes.. and it appears that both of these fantasies fit nicely with him..

I am at a loss however as to how to go about finding a suitable 3rd party or couple... I am not crazy about the possibility of the other party(ies) residing too nearby due to the risk of crossing paths with someone I may otherwise know. I do not have any interest in just randomly picking up a stranger for the important role of participant.. I wouldn't have the courage of asking any one (or couples) of friends that I have in my life.. Any suggestions as to how to go about locating someone who would fit our needs?