PW, sometimes it hard to remember just how wonderful you are. That's why the rest of us are here! You're obviously smart if you can teach kids and actually have them learn. You obviously have a great guy that's just a little hesitant because of past experience and not you. I bet even when your kids hate your guts they love you at least 10x how much they hate you just like all us kids do. Sounds to me like you have it made.

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"BOY: On a hot summer night, would you offer your throat to the wolf with the red roses? GIRL: Will he offer me his mouth? BOY: Yes. GIRL: Will he offer me his teeth? BOY: Yes. GIRL: Will he offer me his jaws? BOY: Yes. GIRL: Will he offer me his hunger? BOY: Yes. GIRL: Again, will he offer me his hunger? BOY: Yes! GIRL: Yes. BOY: On a hot summer night, would you offer your throat to the wolf with the red roses? GIRL: Yes. BOY: I bet you say that to all the boys!" -Meatloaf