omni. i have had and still that problem. i believe it is a mental problem. i have only had one girl get me off orally. my g-f and i now will go at it at the same time to reach that effect. ex. i masturbate while she licks my balls, tends to help. i have also got a piercing right below the head on underside in the sensitive skin that helps the pleasure for me alot also. but try having her lick your balls and you masturbate and just relax when she gives you head