Looking at what you have to say, TechnoGuy, I am left wondering how much interaction you have with partners.

Erotic encounters encompass an array of stimuli, touch, taste, smell, pheremones (maybe), sexual tension and perhaps even fear of being caught. If your quality time is with Mrs Palmer and her five daughters, ably assisted with a smattering of porn, then you're not getting the range of stimulation needed to trigger the intense orgasm.

Variety can be the staff of life.

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