I'm 8.5" long and 5.5" around.

I have to admit its not all that great to be so large. Yes, the gasps are ego boosting, but it has cost me a relationship because the fit was so tight. I was really in love with her, and we just struggled so much with sex that it fell apart. The woman's height has little to do with this btw. The above lady was 5'8", and I've had stunningly great sex with women as small as 5' 0". (I'm 6'3").

Have any of you had this problem?

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" Each day through my window, I watch her as she passes by, I say to myself, you're such a lucky guy. To have a girl like her, is truly a dream come true. Out of all the fellas in the world, she belongs to me. ..
...This couldn't be a dream, for too real it all seems...

But it was just my imagination, runnin away with me, it was just my imagination, runnin away with me. "

Smokey Robinson