Just to clear a couple of things up, I went out with him before my friend did (she started seeing him very shortly after I split up with him which is why we aren't friends anymore) and I wasn't expecting any commitment cos I dont want to be tied down at the moment.

But anyway, none of it matters now! I told him if he's seeing her he doesn't get to see me . Part of me wants to tell her whats been going on but I'm not that bitchy.

Thanks for the advice x x x x x