Just an opinion. I think a lot depends on how you feel about it. If you feel guilty about it, then it probably is. For myself, I don't feel guilty because i know that it's just fantasy and so for me ... it's not.

I'd reconsider involving your husband. Might be a fun thing for the two of you to share. I really wish my wife would join me here at Pixies.

She doesn't object to Pixies, just not a big computer fan. I just think the two of us could really enjoy our time here together.