Hia gang, i just did a poll on here and yayy i scored a 80!
What does your score mean?
I'll certainly give you this: you know the unwritten sexual rules of etiquette like the back of your hand. Your score means that you are respectful, considerate and concerned with more than just your own pleasure. You know that good sex means giving and communicating, and you handle the whole thing in a very mature way. Congrats!
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Hmm then why doesn't my boyfriend want me?
he says it's low sex drive and I say pfffft to that, once a month is tortise sex drive! He can jerk off 5 times a week but only want to make love to me once a month? we are 25 and 29 yrs old. I'm not a super model but hey I think I look pretty good, I walk 7 days a week, I am 25 years old, 5'6, size 10, mousyblonde, green eyes and I never FUCKING YELL! I am very affectionate and easy going and pretty much get on with everyone, so what is the problem?
He loves me but I feel like I am living with a friend, he hardly kisses me apart from a hi kind of kisses on the lips a day, I want passion and intimacy, I want a friend and a lover, am I really asking for too much? guys? girls? please tell me!
OH gee I guess it could be because he works nights then comes home and sits infront of his computer till 4 hrs before he has to go back to work then sleeps till the alarm goes of, goes back to work comes home to the computer (no he isn't having an affair online, he uses the pc for porn and games) then goes back to work. He has wed & thurs off but still sits in the study on his computer. ALL DAY! When I get home from work he leans up to kiss me but keeps his eyes on the computer unless I ask him to give me a hug and kiss. "But you know I love you sweetheart"
I know that sex isn't everything in a relationship but if he loves me as he says he does then shouldn't he WANT to spend a little less time with his computer and a little more time with me? and shoudn't he WANT to want to make love to me? I just want to feel a little needed and desired is that really too much to ask for? I would say on average he spends 15 minutes with me when he gets home and then a few times during the day/evening before work he will have a cup of coffe with me, he comes out for dinner and goes back in, he doesn't hide it from me what he does which sometimes makes me feel worse especially when it comes to the porn, hey we all look at porn, you do, I do, we all do but when that is enough to satisfy you sexually to the point you don't really need your partner, what does that say about me?
I don't want to leave him because I do love him but I'm tired of living with my friend, I want to live with my friend and lover.
Excuse me while i go off and cry now lol