kittylicious;

Not much to add to what the wise people above have said.... but taking Belial's sugestion a step further, could you arrange a weekend/couple of days for you both to get away from home? My S/O (Celticangel) and I try to do this as often as we can, which isn't easy, but it lets us spend ALL our time & attention on each other.... which is great!! (Mind you, we don't have the same problem as you! )

Try it though; it DOES re-charge our batteries, so to speak, and if nothing else, you'll have some REAL space to talk, with no PC/porn/whatever to distract you!!

DM

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Faithing and hoping to buy themselves time
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