Well said Oldfart, I couldn't agree more. Now if I can just borrow the milkcrate....

Monstar, I guess your gf is not as comfortable with her sexuality yet. I know there are things I do now that I thought I would never do when I was younger (yes, girls do peak later, sorry) But what really helped was having a patient partner who didn't pressurise me and waited for me to get comfortable enough to try those things. The other thing is maybe she just isn't interested in "freaky stuff". And if that is the case, you gotta decide if it is the gf you want or freaky sex.