I also enjoy anal. My exhusband would never try it although he did slip into the wrong hole one night. When he realized where it was he pulled it right out. It was very brief. I had been dying to try it since that time. Luckily for me my boyfriend is really into it. It's true that you need lots of lube, but the key is you have to be relaxed. Start small; One finger, then two, then three. If you have a tapered buttplug that helps. Once you're relaxed it feels fantastic. Some nights you might not be relaxed enough, so just try again another night.
Enjoy!!