Boxers over the summer and flannel jammie pants the other three seasons. But there's downsides to each.

When I wear boxers, my dick sticks out the hole.

When I wear flannel, by the time I wake up in the morning, the damn things have ridden up on me so much I look like I'm wearing shorts!

But I have to wear something, because as awkward as trying to work around a boner when woken up by a crying child, imagine the alternatives?

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.