BUT the man really has to be in the mood.

I can 'squeaze' something that has 2 1/3 MAYBE 2 2/3 but after quite a build-up of excitement.

Anything up to 1 1/2 get in really easy, BUT, and make sure you know how the hubbie feels about it, the moment i cum, i want that thing out of my ass. Why? I like it deep, near my prostate, and when i cum, my sphincter and a lot of other muscles spasm really HARD and it hurts like hell if not removed.
Think like this: the colon is bending and stretching to accept the dildo/whatever, then suddenly it looses all elasticity and becomes rigid.

Except for that, i had the greatest orgasms by planting a toy in my butt.

Oh, --- you might have to ask if he feels anal play as degrading. Some men do [feel gay/guilty/ashamed/less-of-a-man.. etc].
I'm as straight as it can be and i just LOVE that..

PS: what got me into doing that was a Porn tape with a girl soing anal and she was enjoyng that so much i thought i give it a try.

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