My opinion is that cybering is like reading an erotic story that it being created with you inside of it. It can take any turn possible that the 2 people can think of. So in case I didn't get the point across, I am with the general census about my enjoyment of cybering. I have done the phone and webcam before and those out do cybering by itself. But as long as both people that are cybering are well versed in how to explain their actions and desires, then cybering can be alot of fun.