I think it depends on the guy -- I'm more likely to "just do it" if he gives me ANY indication that he's adventurous. However, with my SO I ALWAYS ask -- he has too many boundaries to even begin to guess.

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Life is too short not to love and be loved....preferably multiple times in one night.

I think men talk to women so they can sleep with them and women sleep with men so they can talk to them. ~ Jay McInerney