well boogiedown! i used to be very like your partner, i never swallowed ever!! i used to give my fiance head all the time but just at that crucial point id pull out! i knew that he wanted me to swallow but i was kinda scared (duno why!!). anyway, we had been talking one night and he just asked me if i would ever swallow and i said "yeah, course i would...one day!!" anyway one night not too long after that i was giving him head and just as i was about to pull away he just said to me "dont stop" and i didnt and thats how i started to swallow!! dont be insensitive with your girl! not every girl likes it and that aint her fault, or maybe on the other hand she is just a wee bit shy, just ask her what her thoughts are or take my mans tip, just wait till shes down there!