Well, I'll be honest. I slept with 5 women at my last job, 1 at the job before, and one on the job before that. None of them have caused any problems at work. It was all just casual sex, so we never mentioned it much at work. I've managed to stay friends with all of them, haven't seen any of them lately, but we're still friends. Sounds like Vamp had a stalker, but I knew going into all of them that it was just sex and so did all of my partners. Just gotta get the mindset right if you work with them, and don't let it go beyond sex.