i didn't cum nearly as often during intercourse with my ex husband as i do with my boyfriend. i dunno if his technique is better or if we've just got a much better emotional connection. probably a little of both. my boy regularly makes me cum before intercourse too, and once i've started cumming....it's alot easier to keep doing it. but if he's "finished" and i haven't cum yet and i want to, he always rubs, kisses and licks until i'm a sweaty, breathless, glowing little puddle of drooling kitten. i'm very VERY lucky to have found this one and i have no intention of letting him slip away!