Well to answer you, no you really didn't answer the question. Your girl-friend says to you I love, but am not in love with you....You would intrepet that as how? Or she says I love you un- fornutely! Your reation would be what?
And do we sometimes say in relations, because it's what we know, and change is scary? So why go to something new, and scary.when we can stay here with what we know..

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