db... thanks for braving my warning and dropping me a line of reassurance.

mackenzie... any info is good info. i'm always thinking twice and thrice and fourthice ... thank you

tt... puhleeze...i'd never dream of asking you to sugar coat anything! i count on your uh...forthright manner *cough* thank you, dear! big(((((HUGS))))) ^^^misses chatting with you^^^

lilith... i hadn't thought to look at midwifing books. that is a fantastic idea, thanks! leave it to you to have all the research done and catalogued (((hugs)))