I've re-read my post to figure out if I seemed to be against the idea...Just for the record, I'm not, & I'm really happy for anybody that can make it work. I don't expect anybody to live by my rules, & I definitely don't let anyone tell me how to live mine (outside of anyone who has the power of law behind them). I merely stated that the one instance I knew of didn't work, but then, most of the other marriages I've been around didn't work out either! It's tough to get two people to agree to stay together long term, & my guess is that adding more personalities to the mix would strain things further...& again, for those who can make any kind of marriage work long term, my hat's off for you (& me too)

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