When Wanda finds her parade, I'm more than happy to march in it, Scotz ....it'll be one hell of a party.

Sweetlady, I didn't see anyone doing anything but confessing their own experiences/preferences. But I can see that if you're already feeling a little singled out, some of the posts might have felt like jabs to an already sore spot. For what it's worth, I liked what you said in your original post. I think people come in amazing and wonderful variation, in all dimentions. Sexual preference is just one of them...but like all others, no-one should ever feel their answer is the "wrong" one. There is nothing wrong with your not be turned on by women. Zip. Zilch. It's totally you. I think it was generous of you to give a MFF a try for your then partner, and I think it's fabulous that you were honest with yourself afterwards and decided it wasn't for you.

But I think you raise an interesting question....maybe it is more acceptable in today's society for women to be bi (or whatever..I still don't like the labels ). Maybe some people even expect women to be bi. I think it's possible to build the argument that "het. male" oriented pornography (ok, that's three different fights I might have just picked) contributed to the idea that bi or FF action was desirable, in the same way it contributed to shaved pubes being defined as sexy. I actually don't know a lot of bi guys to ask...sounds like there are a bunch here who could weigh in on the subject of whether they feel as accepted as the women.

However it came about, though, I just don't think it's as big a problem here as elsewhere. Is it possible that you're still reacting in part to your ex's pressure to keep trying MFFs after you'd told him you weren't interested? Cause that sounds like it was just downright inconsiderate.

G